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大家都知道了，北大出身的人类灵魂工程师俞敏洪给中国女性开了一“枪”。

在某个论坛上，他说：现在是因为中国女性的堕落导致整个国家的堕落。

一时间舆论炸锅，俞敏洪被骂上热搜。眼看事情就要无法收拾，俞敏洪赶紧出来解释澄清。

"Today, when I tried to explain during a forum how the direction of evaluation determines the direction of education, I used the analogy of women's standards in looking for a husband.

"Because of my poor analogy, I caused misunderstanding among netizens, about which I'm very sorry," Yu said in a Sina Weibo post on Sunday evening.

Earlier, at an education forum in Shanghai, when talking about how the mechanisms of evaluation influenced education, Yu likened it to the criteria Chinese women use to find a mate and how that influences men and the country.

Yu said if all Chinese women are looking for men that earn a lot of money regardless of integrity, all men in China will try to gain a fortune instead of having a clear conscience, which he said is indeed the current standard for Chinese women.

"The mainstream image of Chinese women is optimistic and sincere. There are a lot of women who hold an enterprising spirit and positive values. It's not logical to blame all women just because some gold-diggers choose a husband based solely on money. It puts the label of worshipping money on all women and denies that men are independent in their endeavors."

Yu's arguments — "Chinese women's degeneration led to the degeneration of the whole country" and "if Chinese women are strong, so is the country" — are both biased and are not acceptable, the federation said.

"Women are an important force in promoting social development and progress. They shouldn't be looked down on or looked up to but should be treated equally, which is the true meaning of respect."

Yu Minhong founded New Oriental, an education giant of English training, in 1993. As a successful businessman and national political adviser, he is also known for his outspokenness and appeals to improve the incomes of rural teachers in underdeveloped areas.

最后，小编说一下对此事的看法：

就像电影《找到你》说的：“这个时代对女人的要求太高了。如果你选择成为一个职场女性，会有人说你是个糟糕的妈妈；如果你选择成为一个全职妈妈，又有人觉得不算一个职业。”

教育把中国女性推向职场，但与此同时中国男人并没有回归家庭。说女人进化得比男人更快也行，但更接近真相的，应该是中国女人有多优秀，中国男人就有多缺席。

女性一听俞敏洪的“女性堕落论”就急着炸锅，不是反感演讲本身，可能是更反感这背后男性在婚姻、育儿里的缺席，以及缺席而不内疚、不思改变的现实情况吧。

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