一、 有的人，每天和你争吵，却不曾怪罪你。有的人，连争吵都没有，却已经消失在人海。原来，冷漠比争吵更可怕。所有的痴恋都一样，当事人觉得伟大，旁观者只认为傻气。

some people quarrel with you every day, but never blame you. Some people, even without quarrels, have disappeared in the crowd. Originally, indifference is more terrible than quarrel. All infatuations are the same, the parties feel great, the onlookers only think foolish.

二、无论你活成什么样子，背地里都会有人对你说三道四。一笑了之，给自己一个灿烂的阳光，一片自由的海洋，让自己不断变强，其实就是最好的蔑视。

no matter what you live like, you will be told something by someone behind your back. Laugh at it, give yourself a brilliant sunshine, a free ocean, make yourself stronger and stronger, in fact, is the best contempt.

三、我很容易笑，也很容易哭，只是笑的时候没心没肺，而哭的时候痛到窒息。以前以为人在最绝望的时候会撕心裂肺地哭，后来才知道目光空洞沉默不语才是真的心死。

It's easy for me to laugh and cry, but when I laugh, I have no heart and no lung, and when I cry, I feel suffocated. I used to think that when people were in the most desperate time, they would tear their heart and lungs and cry. Later, I learned that silence with empty eyes is the real death of heart.

四、人生四大悲剧：能力配不上梦想，收入配不上享用，容貌配不上矫情，见识配不上年龄。好姑娘，能自己扛就别声张，矫情幽怨的样子并不漂亮！就算你没有倾国倾城的美貌，也要有摧毁一座城的骄傲。

tragedies in life: ability does not match dreams, income does not match enjoyment, appearance does not match affection, and knowledge does not match age.

Good girl, if you can carry it on your own, don't make a noise. It's not beautiful to be affected with feelings and complaints. Even if you don't have the beauty of a city, you should be proud to destroy it.

五、用单纯的眼光看待人生，你将少掉许多莫名的烦恼；用幸福的脚印丈量生活，你的步履会轻盈洒脱；用感恩的心去面对帮你的人，你会发现人间真的有许多无私与美好；用宽容的心去面对伤你的人，你会觉得他们其实也都不容易。人生，总有许多沟坎要跨越，岁月，总有许多遗憾要弥补，生命，总有许多迷茫要领悟。

六、人总是这样，终于到了懂得珍惜的年纪，却偏偏什么都走散了。人生的多愁善感，总是深情，当回忆成了生活的一部分，回忆会慢慢的占据你现实生活的空间，让你面对现实生活时，觉着日子太索然无味。

people are always like this, and finally to know how to cherish the age, but what happened to be scattered. Life is sentimental, always affectionate, when memories become a part of life, memories will slowly occupy the space of your real life, let you face real life, feel that life is too dull.

七、之所以说不理智，因为爱情，它就像一棵小树，他的成长需要阳光，雨露，肥沃的土壤，精心的呵护。如果你是一个有责任感的人，不用我说，你也知道。

the reason is not rational, because love, it is like a small tree, his growth needs sunshine, rain, fertile soil, meticulous care. If you are a responsible person, don't need me to say, you know.

八、或许我念念不忘的是那个我幻想出来的剪影，而当彼此熟悉到亲密无间我却发现了瑕疵，所以我接受不了那颗珍珠上的裂痕我舍不得的不是她而是她给的致命的回忆。人的一生浮浮沉沉，有人蓦然高歌有人处事圆滑也有人风尘仆仆的去追随，而我不知道自己是哪种人。

Perhaps what I can't forget is the silhouette I fantasized about, but when I got familiar with each other, I found flaws, so I couldn't accept the crack on that pearl. I couldn't bear to part with her but the fatal memory she gave me.

The ups and downs of a person's life, some people suddenly sing, some people do things smoothly and some people go to follow, and I do not know what kind of person I am.

九、生命如流，既有海浪的激越，亦有涧溪的舒逸；既有狂风中的高昂，亦有夕照下的低回。无论是在缤纷中绚丽，还是于淡雅里清新，我们都为生命注入了属于自己的韵味。我们是平凡的，更多的是平淡的柔美。我们是需要这种平淡的，这种平淡悄无声息，为我们的人生画卷烙上了生动的底色。

十、凄凉的心，藏着彷徨，孤独的缘，藏着忧伤，思绪万千，等来一个错，无奈守护，藏着一份冷静，最后一份别，两个放不下。

The desolate heart, hiding hesitation, loneliness, sadness, thoughts, and so on, a mistake, helpless guardianship, hiding a calm, the last part, two can not put down.

十一、 有人和你谈恋爱，有人和你结婚，这两种是完全不一样的。谈恋爱，是他停下来陪着你，但并没有改变自己的行程，随时都有可能走。而结婚呢，是他放弃了自己的路，愿意和你走同一条路。所以恋爱易，结婚难。爱上你的人，依旧是路人。娶了你的那个人，才叫家人。

There are people who fall in love with you and people who marry you. They are totally different. Love is when he stops to accompany you, but he doesn't change his journey.

He can leave at any time. And to get married, he gave up his own way and was willing to go the same way with you. So love is easy, marriage is difficult. Those who love you are still passers-by. The man who married you is the family.

十二、不联系，是因为你的冷淡告诉我打扰到你了；不主动，是因为根本打动不了你。虽然我有一万种想见你的理由，却少了一种能见你的身份。你过你的生活就好，安静的住在我心里就好。不打扰，是我爱你最后的方式。

No contact, because your indifference told me to disturb you; no initiative, because you can not move at all. Although I have ten thousand reasons to want to see you, I lack one identity to see you. You live your life, just live quietly in my heart. Don't bother, it's the last way I love you.

十三、有的人，每天和你争吵，却不曾怪罪你。有的人，连争吵都没有，却已经消失在人海。其实，冷漠比争吵更可怕。结婚证只能证明两个人躺在床上合不合法，却不能证明两个人适不适合。

Some people quarrel with you every day, but they never blame you. Some people, even without quarrels, have disappeared in the crowd. Actually, indifference is more terrible than quarrel. A marriage certificate can only prove that two people are in bed illegally, but it can't prove that two people are in bed.

十四、如果你能容下一点瑕疵，就能得到一块美玉。要生活在这个世界上，就会有烦恼。但是，痛苦和快乐取决于你的内心。再重的担子，笑着也是挑，哭着也是挑。

If you can tolerate a little defect, you will get a beautiful jade. To live in this world, there will be trouble. But pain and happiness depend on your heart. No matter how heavy the burden is, laughing is a challenge, and crying is also a challenge.

十五、平淡了，执着地蕴积，总有精彩；路尽了，适时地拐弯，天地自宽。别在乎一时的拥有，莫沉陷短暂的离愁，草长花会开，极目方望远，一切都有规律，无须刻意就好。你可以哭泣，可以心疼，但不能绝望。今天的泪水，会是你明天的成长；今天的伤痕，会是你明天的坚强。

十六、不管雨下多久，最终彩虹总会出现，不管你有多难过，始终要相信，幸福就在不远处。无论你在哪里，吹过我的风都会替我拥抱你。

No matter how long it rains, the rainbow will always appear. No matter how sad you are, always believe that happiness is not far away. Wherever you are, the wind that blows through me will embrace you for me.

十七、你不懂我的脆弱，就不要摧毁我的坚强；你做不了我的盾，就不要卸下我的铠甲。人生只有两次幸运就好，一次遇见你一次走到底，爱不会缺席但会姗姗来迟，晚点遇见你余生都是你。

If you don't understand my fragility, don't destroy my strength; if you can't do my shield, don't unload my armor. There are only two lucky times in life. Once you meet, once you come to the end, love will not be absent, but it will come late. Later, it will be you for the rest of your life.

十八、当裤子失去皮带，才懂得什么叫做依赖。你住的城市下雨了，很想问你有没有带伞。可是我忍住了，因为我怕你说没带，而我又无能为力，就像是我爱你却给不到你想要的陪伴。

十九、其实，没有什么东西是不能放手的。时日渐远，当你回望，你会发现，你曾经以为不可以放手东西，只是生命里的一块跳板，令你成长。

二十、抱怨，是一种负能量，犹如搬起石头砸自己的脚，于人无益，于己不利，于事无补。曾经拥有的不要忘记，已经得到的更加珍惜，属于自己的不要放弃，已经失去的留作回忆。