你有没有在某个微凉傍晚,忽然闻到一阵饭菜香气,心头便泛起深深柔软?不是豪言壮语,也不是山盟海誓,只是一种恍惚——原来有人和你一起走进了生活的烟火。
时光走到中年,柴米油盐里藏着许多秘密。曾经以为爱情只属于青春的悸动,后来才懂,平凡的日子,往往才最考验一颗心的笃定。每个人心中,都住着一个故事,一段往事。那些曾让我们牵挂、泪流,甚至追逐过的人,如今或许已成生命的风景。可真正值得被珍藏的,是那个人始终与我们并肩,不离不弃。
世人喜欢用童话包裹婚姻,可谁又能一直像小王子与玫瑰般宠爱彼此?更多时候,我们都不过是一对在城市迷宫里奔波的普通夫妻。清晨鸡毛蒜皮,夜晚各怀心事;哪怕同床共枕,也可能隔着千山万水。可是,在那些看似无趣的日常里,仍然有无数温吞的浓情。在深夜醒来,有人为你掖好被角;雨天忘记带伞,有人默默守在公司楼下。他们也许不会甜言蜜语,却会用行动告诉你:“你从未被世界遗忘。”
有人说婚姻是一本书,每天都在翻页,酸甜苦辣都写在里头。可如果没有认认真真地去品读、呵护,时间终究会将两颗心推得越来越远。我见过太多中年夫妻,依然热闹非常,却冷漠如冰。他们在忙碌间淡忘了彼此,把交流变成了琐碎,把关心变成了唠叨。就像那株开过的花,在无人照拂下慢慢萎谢。再好的缘分,也需要悉心维护,否则花期过后,剩下的只是枝头的空荡。
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