人生最大的遗憾，当你明白时，你已不再年轻。|rain|人生最大的遗憾|成全|李宗盛|村上春树

有时候，遗憾就像深夜街头的霓虹灯，格外夺目，却无法靠近。成长的路，不是一条笔直平坦的大道，更像是迷宫，每拐一次弯，总要丢下一些自己曾经在乎的东西。有些道理，年轻时听得云里雾里；等终于懂了，却发现时光已偷偷溜走。

都说“人生最痛的不是错过，而是追悔”，这好像是无数中年人的真实写照吧。二十岁时只想追风，一头撞进现实的墙壁。三十岁想做点成绩，又常常觉得家庭与梦想难以兼得。等到四十，再回头骂自己。

有些机会错过了就是一辈子。正如村上春树那句，“死并非生命的对立面，而是作为其一部分永存。”遗憾也如此，是岁月的一部分，陪着我们一起成长、老去。

前些日子和老朋友聚会，大家都是孩子快要上学的年纪，聊得最多的不是房子车子，而是“如果当年敢多试一次，也许事业会不同”、“如果能早点和家人和解，心里就不会有那么多结”。

这些遗憾，像沙漏里的细沙，每个人都悄悄攥在手心，生怕别人发现，也有点舍不得真的放下。其实，很多中年人的生活状态，就是“一边在路上，一边思念过往”。有的人父母渐渐老了，自已却忙得焦头烂额；

有的人拼命工作，结果年华半老，也未必能得到期待的回报。有人累得喘气，却又不敢停下来。人生就像打折季的衣服，等你有钱买了，却已经不流行了。青春不是用来怀念的，是用来奋斗的，然而遗憾恰恰是奋斗里最常见的产物。

有人问：“为什么我们总在不年轻的时候才明白这些深刻的道理？”我常笑着说，人心就像煮汤，要小火慢炖，急不得。年轻的时候，有些经验和伤痕，必须亲自尝一尝，才觉得滚烫。

岁月才是最好的老师，它悄悄把答案递给你的时候，你已经不是初出茅庐的少年了。李宗盛的歌里唱：“你以为这种温柔，是例行公事，其实它来自理解之后的体贴。”这句话让我想到，年龄越大，对世界宽容也越多。

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