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都说“少年夫妻老来伴”，年纪越大，越能体会出这句话的分量。三十岁的风风雨雨，五十岁的柴米油盐，其实都可以扛一扛，但到了七十岁，身边人变得越来越有限，陪你一起走下去的人，也就只剩下那个已经熟悉到骨子里的老伴了。这个时候，大家最怕的，往往不是身体上的大小毛病，而是老伴出现了这三样，让晚年失去了幸福感。

第一样：情绪上的冷淡

人到了七十，多多少少要接受身体衰老，可心里其实仍然渴望温暖。最怕的，不是老伴腿脚不利索，而是两个人坐在一起，话都聊不起来。日子平淡，不代表要彼此沉默。如果一方整天闷闷不乐，总是冷处理，有事不说、烦恼不谈、笑声稀缺，这种冰冷的气氛，比任何疾病都让人难受。如果家里有爱、有关心、有一点“小甜蜜”，哪怕生活再普通，也觉得没什么可怕。老伴的一个微笑、一句关心，就是一天的太阳。

第二样：对生活彻底丧失兴趣

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http://m.lmanlon.cn/dujia/80898.shtml早晨多晒太阳，晚上小区里转转，打打电话聊聊家长里短，有点儿兴趣爱好，每天都有点儿动力。怕的是老伴光看着窗外发呆、什么都推脱，说上一句“不想动”。这种状态，容易让家越来越沉闷，两个人都跟着黯淡。其实，只要鼓励彼此多一点参与，无论是种花养草，还是学点儿新鲜玩意儿，日子就能有盼头，幸福感也能升温。

第三样：不愿沟通，拒绝包容

夫妻之间，如果各有脾气，谁都讲理是正常。但老了以后，最怕的不是吵架，而是不理、不沟通。“你不懂我，我也懒得说”，这样的话，隔开了心。老伴之间，即使有争执，也应该及时坦诚沟通。愿意包容一点，理解对方的小小固执，就能让晚年亲密如初。有些矛盾，其实就是一句话，一杯水，一次拉手就能化解。怕的是谁都不愿放下架子，日子闹了冷战，最后成了各吃各的饭、各睡各的床。遗憾的不是失去健康，而是失去了互相靠近的机会。

身体虽然重要，生活中磕磕碰碰免不了，年纪大了该注意，但真正让人焦虑的，其实是两个人的心。有的夫妻“坐在一起就有安全感”，即使退休了，也常常拿旧事出来当笑话说。有人“始终保持恋爱的热情”，学着用网络热词互相调侃，哪怕老了也不让日子变味。

也许只有经历过一生风雨，才会明白，最幸福的老伴，是陪你聊聊琐事的人，是鼓励你去尝试新东西的人，更是遇到问题就坐下来谈谈的人。只要守住这些简单的小温暖，年纪再大，也能有滋有味。