离婚后才发现,前夫每月悄悄给我妈转钱,已经三年了接到妈妈电话的时候,我正在公司加班。她在电话那头欲言又止,最后只说了一句:"有件事,我觉得还是要告诉你。"我心里咯噔一下,以为家里出了什么事。直到她说出那个名字,我手里的笔掉在了地上。"你前夫,这三年每个月都给我转两千块钱。"我脑子嗡的一声,第一反应是:不可能。
我们离婚整整三年,干干净净,各自安好。他甚至没有主动联系过我一次,连朋友圈都互删了。可妈妈把转账记录发过来的时候,我坐在工位上愣了很久。每个月15号,准时到账,备注都是"阿姨保重"。从我们离婚后的第二个月开始,没断过。那一刻我忽然想起来,离婚前妈妈生过一场大病,他陪我在医院守了三天三夜。他当时对我妈说:"阿姨,您就当我是您儿子。"我以为那只是客套话,没想到离婚后,他比儿子做得还到位。而我呢?离婚这三年,我过得其实挺好。换了工作,升了职,偶尔也有人追,日子比婚姻里轻松多了。我甚至在心里无数次庆幸:还好离了,不然得憋屈一辈子。
可现在想想,当初到底是谁憋屈?我们离婚的理由很常见——他不够浪漫,不会说话,赚得也不算多。我觉得跟他过日子没意思,像白开水。他也没怎么挽留,只说了一句:"你想清楚就好。"我当时觉得他冷漠,现在才明白,那可能是他最后的体面。离婚后,我妈一直没跟我提过这件事。她大概是怕我多想,也怕我为难。直到最近她身体又不太好,想着这钱不能再收了,才犹豫着告诉我。我问她:"您为什么收?"她沉默了一会儿说:"一开始我也不想要,但他说,这是他自己的心意,跟你没关系。"跟我没关系。这话听起来客气,却像一记耳光。
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