岁月会带走锐气，但不该带走活力和希望|从前|岁月|成全|锐气

大多数男人年轻时忙事业，到了62岁以后，家变得更重要。但千万别觉得自己资格老了，说话可以没轻没重。比如一句“你怎么总是这样”，本是无心，却容易让另一半伤心。

女人这一生，付出太多精力在家庭，年年月月地操劳，头发白了，性格也细腻了。到这个年纪，谁都怕被否定、怕被忽视。这种话，像雨天窗外的风，吹得人心凉。何不换一种方式，多点肯定和鼓励？

毕竟，“你若盛开，清风自来”。老人之间，更需要彼此成全。

“老了，凑合过吧”

62岁，是一条分水岭。有些男人觉得，这时候“凑合着”就完了，有啥好折腾？于是，日子被缩小成三顿一宿，感情也逐渐归于平淡，甚至冷漠。

可女人呢？她们仍愿意在夕阳下，聊聊儿时往事，或者牵手去看场电影。有句话说：“生命中最幸福的事，不是你拥有多少，而是有人懂你。”别因为年龄就放弃浪漫，更别说“将就”这两个字。这句话，让陪你走了大半辈子的爱人，一下子失去了期待和憧憬。

既然人生下半场已经来临，为何不再为彼此努力一次？让爱情再次升温，让余生都有值得盼望的小目标。

“年轻时……现在不行了”

都说老人爱回忆，其实怀旧可以，贬低自己或者爱人可千万别。“年轻那会儿，我可是……” “我哪里还能像以前那样啊。”这种话说多了，将曾经的美好变成今日的叹息，无形中也让两人的心气变得灰暗。

岁月会带走锐气，但不该带走活力和希望。“每一天都是余生中最年轻的一天”，无论身体如何，积极生活才是最有吸引力的气质。分享故事，不如一起计划今后的美好；怀念过去，不如一起打开新鲜的体验。

“这些事情你不懂”“你想什么呢，都是小事”

许多男人习惯做“家中主心骨”，容易在无意中否定另一半的想法。把许多小感受当成“婆婆妈妈”的唠叨，从而让女人失落。

其实，倾听胜过一百句大道理。两性关系最重要的，就是在日常里感受到被理解、被尊重。年纪越大，越要学会“软一点，对方才能靠近一点”。

正如那句歌词——“有你陪伴的路，再漫长都不怕”。

所以，哪怕只是坐下来，端杯热茶，静静听对方说家长里短，都会成为晚年最温柔的时光。

“算了吧，都老了，还争啥”

有些老人喜欢用“都老了”泄气，那种自暴自弃的小情绪，把整个家的氛围都搅浑了。时代变化很快，许多东西或许早已不同，但世界对美好与温情的追求，从未停止。

无论历经多少沧桑，只要心中有光、有爱、有向往的勇气，就能创造属于自己的幸福滋味。这份勇气，也正是最好的两性养料。

偶尔一起去公园散散步，看鸟儿飞来飞去，便觉有趣。偶尔翻出年轻时的老照片，共同回味从前，也觉得岁月亲切动人。

真正的幸福，不过是柴米油盐里的小确幸，是你一句不经意的关心，是茶余饭后的小情趣。而这些，离不开一句温柔的话语、一点耐心的聆听。

结语

人到晚年，眼里有笑意，心里有温暖，日子才能过得丰盈又有滋味。

别让那些随口而出的负面言辞，成为推远彼此的石头。多一些欣赏，少一些指责，多谢谢，少抱怨，这一生就算老了，也依然可以幸福满溢。http://3g.pupuword.com/gnews/67000.shtml
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