有力量的父爱，是用行动诠释|163

别迷信什么“男主外女主内”的老观念。当孩子看到父亲尊重爷奶，即使观点有冲突，依然三思而后言，可以给孩子极大的安全感。这时候，妈妈不必上杠，大方肯定就好。说一句：“看，爸爸多会为人处世！”比千篇一律补课、说教都顶用。有力量的父爱，大多不靠大嗓门，而是用行动诠释。

有的妈妈喜欢吐槽：“你爸这人……”“跟你爷奶较劲也没用……”这些话藏在饭桌上一遍遍重复，无形中让孩子心里生了刺。取而代之，不如发现丈夫闪光的地方，哪怕只是平淡的关心，“谢谢你今天帮爸妈修水龙头”，“你真细心”。这种鼓励，温暖到女儿心里，也软化了男人的“钢铁直男魂”。

家庭婚姻里，女人其实可以是高手。温柔而坚定的指引，把大家的良性互动推向高光时刻。遇到婆媳小摩擦，主动示弱一下，老公也会站在你的角度思考，你就会发现“家”开始变得顺气和安心。

最现实的情况是，没人能选自己的原生家庭，但每个人都能努力优化和经营当下的家。从今天起，不管丈夫做什么小事，都要大胆肯定、积极反馈。孩子其实不缺物质，更需要榜样的力量和家庭的温度。

别总担心孩子不听话、性格孤僻，你看看他有没有在模仿爸爸？家庭里的小细节，不经意构建了孩子三观的大厦。每个温柔以待父母的男人，身后都有一个智慧温暖的妻子在默默支持。http://m.tianchengban.com/mnews/69834.shtml
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