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那天，我没有站在门口迎接，也没有流泪告别。只是突然间明白，父母之于儿女的牵挂，恰如月亮潮汐，不会真正远离，却也不能咄咄逼人。人与人之间，最大的善意，是给对方留一片自由的风景。

常常有人问我，婚姻最难的题，是不是来自婆媳？是不是逃不开“儿子面前，男人始终是儿子”这句老话？但走过许多年，才懂得，问题其实不是“站在哪一边”，而是有没有足够的界限感。肆意进退，才是最危险的距离。没有足够爱与信任做缓冲，再宽的房子都会装满怨气。

这世界上，没有绝对的谁欠谁，也没有理所当然的“牺牲”：父母养儿，是深恩，却终究要学会放手；爱人搭伙，是幸运，却不该总在牺牲自我里迷路。两代人的相处，终究需要理解和距离；所谓家，有时候，恰好就是你可以为彼此慢慢靠近，也可以随时保有退路的地方。

有天夜里，我一个人在阳台，望见邻居老太太在给孙女梳头发，小姑娘笑得很灿烂，一家几代围坐在一起，鸡毛蒜皮里各自安稳。我想到自己原来还年轻，还没学会去接受所有人生的“合光同尘”。我也曾希望有一天，能与婆婆友好如母女，能与公公喝茶聊旧事。可有些人间梦想，是理解之后才生出的松弛，不在遗憾里沉溺，只在选择里坦然。http://m.jishisuyun.com/mnews/82461.shtml
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