一张合照，把结婚24年的老夫老妻拍出了热恋感。
说唱歌手兼演员Ice-T和妻子Coco Austin最近外出过夜生活，两人在镜头前靠得很近。照片发在Instagram上，Austin穿了一条黑色连衣裙，裙身布满彩色花卉印花，金色长发披散下来，配了一支亮红色口红。Ice-T一只手环在Austin胸前，她则往他身上靠，姿态放松。
Austin给这组照片配的文字是：“Arizona Nights I feel like you can pull out Summer dresses all year practically in AZ 。”
他聊起婚姻里最重要的事
这组照片出现的时间点，距离Ice-T公开谈自己的婚姻经营之道，已经过去几个月。
当时他为宣传FOX的新名人竞技节目Nation's Dumbest，接受了Fox News Digital的采访，聊到是什么让两人的关系维持了二十多年。
Ice-T的说法很直接：“I think in a relationship, I think you just have to do what got you guys started. You know, when you first started dating, you can't get rid of date night.”
他解释说，夫妻很容易被日常琐事缠住。对他而言，给彼此留出时间，仍然是保持连接的重要部分。
“别让问题烂在那里”
除了约会之夜，Ice-T还强调了沟通的分量——有问题就处理，别拖着。
“Life comes in, drama, stress, but you got to return to that moment as much as you can. And then talk a lot. You know? Never let a problem fester. If there's a problem, let's get it out. Let's talk about it quick. Don't let it sit.”
他进一步解释，为什么尽早处理问题能避免伴侣之间产生不必要的紧张。
“Don't be mad at me for like a month about something I didn't even know got you mad.”
说完这句，他还提到了自己在Nation's Dumbest的搭档Jon Heder：“Jon's been married for a while too. He understands.”
Heder随后也谈了自己的看法，认为Ice-T和Austin婚姻能维持下去，还有一个关键：“But I think the secret for you is also expanding.”
Ice-T认同这个说法，补了一句：“Yeah, expand. I expand. If I don't expand right, you know, women need expansion.”
从2002年到现在
Ice-T本名Tracy Lauren Marrow，和Austin从2002年结婚至今。两人有一个10岁的女儿，名叫Chanel Nicole Marrow。
结婚二十多年，他们仍然愿意把关系和家庭生活的片段分享给粉丝。这次的照片，大概也算其中一帧。
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