又到周末了!你是不是已经自动进入熟悉的流程:睡到自然醒→刷手机三小时 →追剧到天黑→点外卖续命。
As the weekend arrives, many people slip into a familiar routine. Sleep in, scroll on their phones for hours, binge-watch shows, order takeout, repeat.
等到周一早上,又怀疑自己:“我休息了吗?我好像根本没醒来过。”
这种周末像没周末、休息像没休息的状态,让时间变得像PPT模板:上个月的今天和这个月的今天,一模一样。想要打破这种局面?最近的一条热搜,或许能帮到大家:
听说我们只需要在周末做一件“反差足够大的事”,就能让生活从“死水”变成“活泉”?
A viral topic offers a possible way to break this cycle. The idea is simple. Instead of repeating low-effort habits, try one activity that sharply differs from weekday routines or usual leisure patterns.
为什么做反差大的事情可以帮助我们更好地度过周末呢?
因为大脑皮层的工作特点是镶嵌式的,不同的大脑皮层区域负责处理不同事,当一部分大脑皮层处于活跃状态时,其他部分会被抑制。
如果一个人总在做同样的事,那么同一部分的大脑皮层就会持久地,高强度地工作,肯定会疲劳。想让这部分大脑皮层休息,最好的方法就是做与之前不一样的事,且差异越大,休息效果越好。
The reason lies in how the cerebral cortex functions. Different regions of the brain are responsible for processing different tasks, and when one area becomes active, others are temporarily inhibited.
If a person keeps doing the same things repeatedly, the same part of the cerebral cortex remains under sustained and intense use, making fatigue inevitable. To allow that overworked region to rest, the most effective approach is to engage in activities that differ from the previous ones.
这也是为什么,我们在无所事事两天后,反而身心俱疲。这种疲惫可能不是源于繁忙,而是源于单一的重复。
那么,这个周末,有什么充满“反差感”的事情可以解锁?
① 职业身份反差
程序员去画油画,文字工作者去玩木工,设计师去菜市场学讨价还价——用完全不同的思维模式激活大脑新区域。
Programmers try oil painting, writers pick up woodworking, designers go to the wet market to practice bargaining — use a completely different thinking mode to activate new regions of your brain.
② 空间轨迹反差
平时通勤线路固定?周末随机选个地铁站下车,或者坐公交车到终点站,用“城市漫游者”视角重新认识你所在的地方。
Is your daily commute route fixed? On weekends, try getting off at a random subway station or taking a bus to the final stop. Rediscover your surroundings through the lens of an "urban explorer."
③ 时间感知反差
如果你习惯了晚起,不妨在周六7点去看看清晨的集市,如果你总是匆忙,试试用3小时慢慢准备一顿饭,专注于每个细节。
If you're used to waking up late, why not visit the morning market at 7 am on a Saturday? If you're always in a rush, try spending three hours preparing a meal slowly, focusing on every detail.
④ 社交密度反差
社交达人可以安排“休息日”:关掉社交媒体,只与自然或艺术相处。平时独处多的人,可以参加即兴戏剧或团体运动,体验即时的群体能量。
Social butterflies can schedule a "rest day": turn off social media and spend time only with nature or art. Those who usually spend a lot of time alone can join an improv class or a team sport to feel the instant energy of a group.
⑤ 成果预期反差
故意做一件“没有用”的事:用落叶拼贴一幅不会保存的画,把旧杂志剪成拼贴诗,跟着音乐随意舞动——不为了产出,只为了过程本身。
Deliberately do something "useless": create a leaf collage you won't keep, cut old magazines into a found-poetry piece, or dance freely to music — not for output, but for the experience itself.
真正的休息不是“什么都不做”,而是“做点不一样的事”。当你主动创造这种反差,周末的时间可能会变得像一次短暂度假。
试试看,这周开始用反差激活你的周末能量吧!
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编辑:焦洁
实 习生:孙艺菡
来源:外研社UNIPUS 生命时报
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