城市的喧嚣与热闹,在此刻变成了一道隔绝世界的防线。你以为自己已经习惯了独处,可人到这个年纪才会明白,“常常一个人,其实并不等于习惯一个人。”有时候,连打个电话说句“我没事”,都找不到那个合适的人。
也有人笑谈:“没孩子省心,想吃什么吃什么,想去哪就去哪。”可人终究不是只为自己而活的啊。年轻时,觉得自由珍贵,到了暮年,却发现真正奢侈的是,被需要、被惦记,甚至哪怕只是有人每天对你说一句“今天吃得好吗”。
我见过小区里脾气好的老人,喜欢热情地跟邻居打招呼,期待借此化解夜晚的冷清;见过老友聚餐最后散场,总有人眼眶湿润,因为各回各家,都要面对更长的沉默。一位老奶奶和我说,她其实什么都不怕,最怕的是生病住院,身边没有可以信任和依靠的人——七十岁的胆量,比不上二十岁的无畏。
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