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尊敬的老师、亲爱的同学们：

Dear teachers and classmates:

大家上午好！我们是602班的张皓泽、朱雨馨，今天我们演讲的主题是“不是只有暴力，才叫霸凌”。

Good morning!we are angel and Justin from Class 602. Today, our topic is "Bullying is not just about violence".

校园是一方澄明净土，是圣洁的育人殿堂。但光明之下，也潜藏暗影。近日“3名初中生霸凌同学并将其杀害”的暴力事件令人发指，此事件让我们愤怒和惋惜之余，是否也应引起我们的反思。

The campus is a clear and pure land, a hall of education. But under the light, there are also hidden shadows. The recent violent incident of three middle school students bullying and killing their classmates. which has made us angry and regretful, and should also provoke our reflection.

难道只有出言辱骂或动手殴打才叫霸凌吗？据统计，最让被霸凌者感到无助的时刻，不是来自于施暴者的欺凌，而是旁观者的无视。正所谓“雪崩的时候，没有一片雪花是无辜的。”

It's not just verbal abuse or physical violence that is considered bullying. In fact, what makes the bullied feel helpless the most is the bystander's disregard. As the saying goes, "When an avalanche occurs, no snowflake is innocent."

当听到有侮辱性的外号时，你有没有因觉得有趣而跟着一起叫？当一些流言蜚语传入耳朵时，你会不会为了“合群”而选择不再与他交往？当真的看到有人被欺负有没有因为所谓话题而去夸张传播？当你看到霸凌者在施暴时，你是否会认为那只是平常的打闹？当你的好朋友遭到孤立时，你是否会为了“合群”而选择不再与他交往？当你看到真正的霸凌时，你是否会怕惹祸上身而选择无视......

Did you shout along when you heard someone being nicknamed? Did you spread the word when you saw someone being bullied? When you see bullies abusing, do you think it's just a normal fight? Would you choose to ignore your good friend when they are isolated.

如果每一个人都充当了旁观者，事情会变成什么样？那些施暴的人，会被默许，被肯定，被鼓舞，甚至变本加厉。那些跟着起哄、附和的人，会更麻木，更坦然，更兴奋，甚至跃跃欲试。而被霸凌的人，只会更加怀疑自己，厌弃自己，陷入绝望，感觉到被全世界抛弃。所以，旁观不是中立，而是一种无声的纵容，对清白的加害。

What would happen if everyone acted as an observer? Those who commit violence will intensify. Those who follow suit will become more numb, while those who are bullied will only feel abandoned by the whole world. So, bystanders are not neutral, but a silent indulgence.

我们从来不应该是局外人。就算你只是叫了他的名字而不是外号，就算你只是擦掉了黑板上的辱骂言语，就算你只是主动申请当他的同桌，就算你只是告诉了老师或者家长......当你停止旁观，你就是在保护被霸凌者的勇士。

We should never be outsiders. Even if you only call his name instead of a nickname; Even if you just erase the insulting words on the blackboard; Even if you only apply to be his desk mate, even if you just tell the teacher or parents. When you stop watching, you are protecting the bullied.

你有机会让被霸凌者相信，他从来都不是一个人。一场霸凌的开始或许你无法左右，一场霸凌的走向却有可能因你的选择，而发生改变。只要你愿意你就可以改变世界，一个绝不容忍霸凌存在的世界。

You have the opportunity to make the bullied believe that he has never been alone. You may not be able to control the beginning of a bullying, but you can change it. As long as you are willing, you can change the world, a world that will never tolerate bullying.

下面，请同学们举起右手，与我宣誓：

我宣誓！不当残忍的欺凌者！

不当冷漠的旁观者！

不当沉默的受害者！

我承诺！尊重他人，友善待人，绝不参与欺凌！让世界因我的存在而更加美好！

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