何止七夕，还要朝夕。
Not only Qixi, but also every day.
只要你还在担心别人会怎么看你，他们就能奴役你；只有你再也不从自身之外寻求肯定，才能成为自己的主人。
As long as you are worried about how others will see you, they can enslave you; Only when you no longer seek affirmation outside of yourself can you become your own master.
你的拒绝，你建立的边界感，不会赶走你身边对的人。
Your rejection, the sense of boundaries you establish, will not drive away the right people around you.
一个人生在世间，如果想有所成就，必须具备三个条件：才能、勤奋、机遇。
To achieve success in life, one must possess three conditions: talent, diligence, and opportunity.
人本身是非常复杂性的，不是非黑即白。
People themselves are very complex, not black and white.
理解一个人并不一定非要同意这个人的观点。
Understanding someone does not necessarily require agreeing with their viewpoint.
如果你真的很喜欢做一件事，那一定要养成自己一个人就可以独立去做这件事的习惯。
If you really enjoy doing something, you must develop the habit of being able to do it independently by yourself.
我经常有那种感觉，如果这个事情来了，你却没有勇敢地去解决掉，它一定会再来。
I often have that feeling that if this thing comes and you don't have the courage to solve it, it will definitely come again.
所以很多时候会给自己找些具体的事情去做，当投入到一件事的时候，内心的声音就会消失。
So many times, I will find specific things to do for myself, and when I invest myself in something, my inner voice will disappear.
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