其实，我们大概都懂。深爱过的人分手后之所以避而不见了，大多不是因为恨，更不是因为无情，而是怕在余生的路上一直绕不过彼此。感觉如果一直关注、一直打扰，对彼此都是种打扰，还不如用彻底的安静保全最后的体面和尊重。

我身边一个阿姨曾经离过婚，她说，每个人走向人生不同的路口，终归要学会独自前行。有些人，路过了心，然后各自安好。你会渐渐明白，情感这东西，热烈时遮天蔽日，冷却了便风吹云散。但这不等于彼此的真情是假，只是在大多数人的现实生活里，告别本就是最文明的方式。

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当然也听说过，有些人还能做朋友，分手后还能相互祝福。但那毕竟少，更多的是像林然和小雯那样——用沉默隔开回忆。不是没有遗憾，但大家知道，再找回去，山河已远，岁月已新。

有一回林然喝醉了，说过一句话：“那些共同走过的路，留给彼此的，都是珍贵的。只不过，如今更希望各自都好。”

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