我小的时候，母亲喜欢打牌，村里小孩也常来找她打，母亲虽然年长但和我们这些孩子一起玩也是认认真真，玩得不亦乐呼。开始玩的时候玩伴们都很友好，可是玩着玩着一局下来，赢了的小孩笑哈哈洋洋得意了，还说：“你输了吧，你输了吧”，这个时候本来输了的小孩心里不舒服被他那样子一拨火，气得把桌上的牌用手一扫扔地满地都是，还哭着走了。搞得大家不欢而散。母亲会说输不起啥人呀！

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我可不那么认为，虽然说输了要输的起，胜败乃兵家常事，但是人都是有想赢得心里，还是希望赢了别太张扬，有志者事竟成，你暂时赢了，或许会因为你的张扬更激发对方的斗志满满。赢了太张扬只会是搬石头砸自己的脚。

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无论是在赛场上还是日常的小游戏中，赢了之后的表现都挺重要的。 就像张本智和那场半决赛，他赢了之后摇头晃脑确实太兴奋了，有些张扬。但这也反映了他的比赛激情和个性嘛。不过呢，有时候太张扬确实可能会激起对方的斗志，就如王楚钦，狮王又回来了，让接下来的比赛http://m.hospace.cn/mnews/65901.shtml
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我们在百家号平台上创作内容时，其实也可以借鉴这个道理。我们发布一篇爆款文章或者视频，获得了很高的阅读量、播放量，那肯定是很高兴的。但这个时候，我们也要保持谦逊和低调，不要过于张扬，毕竟创作之路还很长，要保持一颗平常心，持续输出优质内容才是关键。 同时呢，也要尊重每一位读者和观众，不要让他们觉得我们的成功是建立在他们的失败之上的。我们可以用更温和、更鼓励的方式去与他们互动，激发他们的创作热情，一起营造一个积极、健康的创作环境。 总之呢，赢了之后怎么表现，确实是一门学问。既要表达自己的喜悦，又要照顾到他人的感受，这样才能在创作之路上走得更远、更稳。